Improving that old thing called Attraction

The biggest thing I notice when guys talk to chics is that they are trying to be something their not. They have seen dudes with hotass chics who have the girls that they want...at least physically.

I learned every tactic alive to try to make a chic think I was something that I wasn't. And you know what...it worked! Sort of... I did get better results but I noticed 2 things: First, I felt emptier, and Second, my actual close ratio was much lower. Meaning that while I was attracting hotter chics I was actually getting fewer results. Let's face it guys, the more popular you are, the more attractive you are.
But guess what, people are popular for a reason, they're awesome with people, they're charismatic, and they have their shit together. You can't simulate that!

I say it again, you can't fake it. I tried it, it's just like Enron! You're gonna tank eventually.

So what has worked for me

1. Find out what attributes of attractiveness you need to work on and do that. I didn't understand teasing. I didn't understand how you can make fun of people and that's attractive. Here's a little tip to, if you can make fun of yourself while making fun of others that's even more attractive because it shows that you're not taking yourself too seriously.

2. Talk to people with no outcome in mind just talk just to talk and don't take it personally if you fuck up. You've been playing video games with your not getting laid friends. What do u expect to happen? Results don't happen by accident.

3. Give it some time. Cool people didn't become cool overnight (less they're trying to fake it). They became cool over years and maybe even decades. Just have fun with it and think of it as your making up for lost time that you've spent in your head and away from people. I met a super-nerd who went out everynight for years and just by going out, he became cool.

4. Become friends with Randy and myself...just kidding we're dorks so you don't want hang out with us.

PS, lose that judgmentalness too. That kills rapport when ur trying to make someone wrong. The road is smooth, why do you throw rocks before you?

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10 Tips To A Better Date

It doesn't matter if you're the school nerd or the star quarterback. These 10 tips that I have found, tried, and succeeded with will put you on the speed track to having that dating area of your life covered.

1. Be a decision maker. Women love men who lead, not slaves who follow their every command. Next time you're on a first date, don't ask for her opinion on where or when you guys should go. Take the lead and book the place. When it is time to order, ask her ahead of time what she wants and tell the waiter for her.

2. Keep your ex's out of it. You might as well bring a Samurai Sword and commit hara-kiri (Japanese for slicing your suicide) with it.

3. Keep the conversation simple and fun. Try to resist going logical and talking about how yesterday you proved that e=mc2 is wrong.

4. Go to some place that will make sure you guys have fun even if you decide to become a boring bastard.

5. Dress to impress. This is so important. Looks aren't the key factor that women look for in a man, but it is one of them. Do not meet your date looking like you've been sitting at home reading dating tips all day. Go to your local Barnes and Nobles and pick up a style/fashion magazine and see what suits you best.

6. Let go of the outcome. It's not bomb diffusing here guys! If you mess up you aren't going to die. Just go have fun!

7. Be creative. Just like a good advertiser would tell you. You have to stand out somehow. I'm not talking about your awesome Magic The Gathering card collection. Be different but in a cool way. Teach her to hit golf balls into the ocean instead of at the driving range (just make sure it is legal). You get the idea.

8. Avoid politics and religion at all costs. Don't be the hardcore leftist evangelist pushing your views on the poor girl. You might as well talk your way into a grave while you're at it. Keep it simple and fun!

9. Open doors... Ladies First... Let her walk on the inside of the sidewalk... say "excuse me". I don't care what your brother Bubba says while he's overweight, drinking a beer, and eating cheetos on your couch, Chivalry is not dead.

10. Never be afraid of advancing the date, just don't push it. If she wants to go somewhere more quiet, go for it. If she wants to go home, say ok, then come back and read this 10 more times.

Just Have fun, Live the moment, and be calm and confident!

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The Do's And Don'ts Of Being In A Bar or Club V0.2beta

You know that awkward feeling of being in a bar, standing on the wall of chumps surrounded by 3 World of Warcraft geeks who are out in public for the first time in their life?... Don't let that happen again. These few do's and don'ts of bars and clubs that have been field tested, mother approved, should help you out.

Saturday night, I am out at a bar drunk to pieces from the 6 beers that I had pounded before jumping in my friend Sarah's car (she was a sweetheart and volunteered herself to be the D.D., If we had more people like this in the world we wouldn't have wars... JK.). We arrive at the club and my friend buys me two more shots and a beer. Time for the fun to start... I look up and what do I see? A sight that I have not seen since my days of living in West Hollywood and going to Club Highlands. The imfamous "WALL OF CHUMPS". Those few lost souls that are wondering why am I in this bar/club standing with my 2 Star Wars buddies. I was once one of these guys and catch myself in that awkward situation every now and then (minus being a dork.. shuttup Star Wars is cool!). Here are my do's and don'ts to keep myself and hopefully YOU out of that situation.

DO'S
Do whatever it takes to have the most kick ass time... meaning go there with positive energy, drink if you have to (just make sure you got money for a Taxi or a poor old soul you can call your D.D.). Whatever you do just make sure you will have a fun time

Do go with fun people, you are who you hang out with and if you bring loser or debbie downer friends, you will be a loser debbie downer.

Do go with a good ratio of guys/girls. You don't have to roll in there looking like Snoop Dogg with your pimp cane but you don't have to bring the whole farm of cock's in your backyard with ya! Show them females that you aren't walking girl repellant by being with other girls.

Do Socialize!.. So important! Why go to a social watering/drinking hole if you're going to play the creepy uni-bomber role. Put your talking lips on and get ready to talk to anybody who can increase the amount of fun that you are having.

DO NOT'S
Do Not get too drunk that you get you and all of your friends kicked out of the place while managing to be the human barf fountain for the night. Keep it cool, know your limits and on top of all BE SAFE!

Do Not be the creepy guy who looks like a child rapist. Put on a nice friendly smile to the occasional person guy or girl (remember you're just being your nice and friendly self).

Do Not be afraid to talk to others. People who go to bars don't go because they're anti-social and they have nothing better to do. They go because they are fun outgoing people who like to go into society and socialize with others. Take this chance to build on your social network. Talk to anybody just because that is the social person you are. If you were at your 5 year old little sister's birthday party would you be the creepy weirdo? No you'd be the fun guy carrying the party on.

Do Not whip your penis out and wave it around like you just found out that you have one. Sorry, this one had to be said. (this goes out to you Mr. Ryan Wood... (thats a whole other story)

Those couple of tips should help ya out. Just be careful with the being social one, if you have a girlfriend like I do. If your girlfriend ends up chasing you down the street because you were talking to two random girls.. for now.. just run. Maybe one day I will post "How to talk to random girls without having your girlfriend beat the crap out of you".

til then, live life have fun

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